A lovely day in Italy (post by Desiree)

Nothing can beat delicious gelato and a gorgeous bride in the colorful streets of ITALY! The other week I had an INCREDIBLE time photographing a beautiful Norwegian model in Northern Italy, on Lake Garda. Whoa is right!!!!  It was so much fun roaming around the city of Bardolino and the absolute amazing hotels and exclusive venues with Cathrine of Byrllupsbyraaet.  Cathrine is one of the FIRST wedding planners in Norway.  We're working on showing how weddings can be something extra amazing and that it's possible to have your dream wedding!  Benedicthe is getting married next month and is also an awesome fashion designer and blogger.  A special thanks to Brudesalongen i Stavanger for loaning us the beautiful Lusan Mandungas wedding gown for the shoot...and for letting us fly it all the way to Italy. Benedicthe_ITALYIMG_4529 byBenedicthe_DesireeMostad_DestinationWedding_Italy_d4DesireePhotography_Stavangerfotograf_bryllup_bybenedicthe_Italia_003DesireePhotography_Stavangerfotograf_bryllup_bybenedicthe_Italia_004 byBenedicthe_DesireeMostad_DestinationWedding_Italy_015DesireePhotography_Stavangerfotograf_bryllup_bybenedicthe_Italia_009DesireePhotography_Stavangerfotograf_bryllup_bybenedicthe_Italia_007byBenedicthe_DesireeMostad_DestinationWedding_Italy_016 DesireePhotography_Stavangerfotograf_bryllup_bybenedicthe_Italia_013DesireePhotography_Stavangerfotograf_bryllup_bybenedicthe_Italia_010 DesireePhotography_Stavangerfotograf_bryllup_bybenedicthe_Italia_011DesireePhotography_Stavangerfotograf_bryllup_bybenedicthe_Italia_012

why engagement sessions matter {by leslie}

While many couples see the engagement session as a photographic perk that might be first on the chopping block due to budget, this part of the photo process is the most important to me, and I think it should be highly important to you as well. 0731gigism

First, it lets me get to know you. The last thing you should ever want is a photographer who you don't know peppering you with questions on your wedding day. You'll have enough people vying for your thoughts that day, I promise, and I don't want to be one of them. I want you to forget I'm there, and I want to blend into the background and just capture what's happening around us. This happens a whole lot easier if we've done it all before -- like in an engagement session.

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Second, holding an engagement session helps me to find your best angles. I want you to look your absolute best on the big day, and I think you do, too.

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Third, if we've done a session already, you can give me feedback. For instance, I hate X angle or I loved X pose with my guy. You get the picture. No pun intended. This is also a great time to tell me that you love the black and white photos more than color, and I should process a ton of them that way for the wedding, or vice versa.

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Fourth, when I tell you to pose like Y, you know exactly what I mean because, oh hey we've done this before! This means that photos on your wedding day go waaaay faster, and you have more time to spend with the people you love and care about. Which is exactly what you should be doing on your wedding day, not going over details with the photographer.

Oh! And lastly? If we do an engagement session, you will be totally used to me telling you to get all lovey and nuzzle and smooch etc. and then pointing a big lens right into your faces. I'm not gonna lie, that can get a little weird. But if we've done it before and laughed at the ridiculousness of it and you've seen that the photos are awesome, then on your big day it's no big deal. Which is how it should be.

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Maybe once a year, I shoot one of the local burlesque shows in town. I love these shows because the women are such amazing performers, and they make things like taking off your gloves look sexy. It's a sight to see. Also? It makes for great photos. So much glitter! And feathers! And twirling! I even took my mom once. I seriously suggest one of these shows for a fun night out with either your true love or a bunch of girlfriends. There's just a lot of smiling, laughing and wine. Fun for everyone.

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