Tips for an LGBTQ+-affirming first look and ways to personalize your moment.
Witnessing your partner at the ceremony amidst a crowd may not suit everyone. Opting for a private first look and sharing an intimate moment has become increasingly popular. Surprisingly, there's a lot of reasoning behind this choice! As wedding photographers, we appreciate it when couples choose to have a first look, as it allows us to capture all the photos before the ceremony. This ensures that couples can fully enjoy time with their guests rather than being caught up in post-ceremony photography sessions. Our guide for LGBTQ+ couples planning a first look can hopefully help direct you where to begin and what to consider!
Communicate your preferences.
Deciding what you and your partner want out of the big reveal starts with a conversation. You could have someone guide you to a spot for the both of you to turn around together, or one of you could walk up to the other. Discuss your expectations and preferences with your photographer and videographer before the wedding day. Be specific about your vision of how you’d like the first look to go. If you aren’t sure, ask your photographer/videographers for ideas and suggestions so you can walk through the details as much as possible to avoid any spoilers! Consider hiring LGBTQ+-affirming vendors who understand the significance of this moment for you.
Personalize it.
A first look should be based on personal preferences that you and your partner decide on what feels best. Consider where it should be, and what kind of personal touches you can incorporate such as intimately sharing personal vows, or exchanging a gift that can be worn on your big day.
Focus on each other.
Remember that your wedding day is about celebrating your love and commitment to each other. Amidst the excitement and nerves of the day, focus on each other during the first look. Even though it might be hard, try to block out distractions and savor this intimate moment together.
Take your time.
Don't rush the first look. Take your time to soak in the moment, exchange words of love and affirmation, and enjoy each other's company before the whirlwind of the wedding day begins.
Celebrate the moment.
After doing your first look and taking a moment just for the two of you, offer the wedding party or members of your day to see how amazing you both look. Once everyone is together, it's the perfect opportunity to move into your wedding party photos. Now that you both have seen each other the festivities can officially begin!